TEN SIGNS OF THE DELILAH SPIRIT.
She was a sweet weapon of destruction. The Philistine rulers employed her as a weapon to capture Samson. The Philistines couldn’t stop Samson with their army, city gate, swords and shields for many years. But one woman managed to stop him. Her name is Delilah. The only woman the bible named in Samson’s life. She was the secret weapon that brought about the tragic end of Samson. Here are ten signs of Delilah spirit you should beware of.
1. Delilah is selfish. She is not there for love or the relationship. She is there for herself and what she stands to gain for herself in the relationship. She is an opportunist. Also, she is sometimes in the relationship to prove something to others. Almost everything she does has a selfish motive behind it. She has her own agenda and hardly sacrifices for the relationship. That is why the bible spoke about Samson’s love for Delilah but never spoke of Delilah’s love for Samson.
2. Delilah is captivating, enchanting, exciting and charming. She is beautiful and lively. She has a sweet personality. She knows what a man wants and she knows how to make a man feel good. She is a difficult person to resist. You would love to have her around you always but she will play with your mind and heart. She will leave you in the middle and hanging, never knowing whether to quit or to continue. Today she does or tells you something that shows that she loves you, then another moment she does something that tells you she doesn’t love you. Like in the Bible, at one moment Delilah will tie Samson and say ‘the Philistines are upon you’. Then the following moment, she will offer her lap to Samson for comfort and relaxation. So you don’t even know what to believe and where the relationship is really heading because Delilah always leaves you stuck in the middle.
3. Delilah is manipulative/she practices witchcraft. She is cunning and likes playing games in a relationship. She knows and understands a woman’s power of influence and abuses that power to fulfil her agenda. She likes to play smart and turn you into some fool. She can make you do things that are against your conscience. She is not straight but a double-minded person. She is not honest and tells lies a lot. She will coax, goad, deceive, pressurize, nag, seduce and subdue men with her intelligence, voice, facial expression and body. She has no shame or integrity. She likes play acting and cannot be trusted. Beware of the signs of Delilah spirit.
4. For Delilah, it is business as usual. She hardly puts her emotions into the relationship because she knows she has issues with commitment. For her, as long as she is in need of your service or presence, she is with you. Immediately her need changes or you no more serve the purpose for which she connected to you, she will abandon you quickly for another person. She will betray you or deny you when situations become critical. She is materialistic and she loves power. She loves to hang around men with money, power, influence and positions. She is very ambitious. And her ambitions can make her ruthless, greedy, and insensitive.
5. Delilah does not like to be under authority and she loves to have her way. She is educated. She is confident. She knows her rights and she doesn’t want to submit to a man. She wants to be independent and wants to have control in the relationship. She manipulates her man a lot. She can make you feel lonely, frustrated and depressed.
6. Delilah is suicidal (she will finish you). She will lead you gradually to your demise as she secretly pursues her agenda. Then she will leave you for good after she is done with you. If God is not on your side, you will never get back on your feet again.
7. Delilah is a promiscuous woman. She loves to flirt with men. She loves power, so seeing men competing and giving her all the attention makes her feel powerful and influential. For her, living a promiscuous life or dating different men without being discovered makes her feel invincible, intelligent and smart.
8. Delilah is vengeful and unforgiving. Dare to criticize, caution, rebuke or turn down her request, and she will suddenly turn against you and do something to hurt you badly just to get back at you. Yes, this is part of the signs of Delilah spirit.
9. Delilah is a hypocrite and a pretender. She lives a fake life. She is not who she claims or appears to be on the outside. She is a good actress, so she only plays the role you would love to see anytime she is with you. And when she is with a different person or at a different place, she switches her role or character to suit that person or moment. Delilah is phoney.
10. Delilah never ends up well. She usually ends up in misery and destroyed by her own evil motives.
Finally, if you are a woman and you live your life like this, repent, else your end will not be good! And if you are a man going out with a woman like this, start running for your life before it is too late. Also, note that it is not only women who show these signs of Delilah spirit. Some men also do. We all have to beware of the signs and spirit of Delilah.